Saturday, 2 April 2016

When Is The Right Time To Go Into Another Relationship?


Hello Oli readers. Happy New Month and am so sorry for the long absence, I had lots of engagements which involved travelling a lot but not to worry I am back to serve you guys hot topic straight from reality’s pot and will not be flip out on you all anymore again.

So for today we going to be discussing on the topic when is the right time to go into another relationship. Yes you heard right…..we just finished talking about breakup and moving on and now in the cause of moving on, some people might want to move on to another relationship but in some cases is not bad but we should try and understand that there are times in life that we just have to walk away from all the dramas so as to breathe a fresher air.

Monday, 7 March 2016

Are you his or her rebound?

I know many of us might know the meaning of being one’s rebound but I will still try to explain it in a lay man’s English. What does it really mean to be someone’s rebound guy or girl? It simply means when a guy or a girl breaks up with someone, and instead of getting over him/her and then moving on to date others, he or she may get involved with someone right away as a method of helping them get over their ex or to avoid the pain of breakup…rebound relationships doesn’t always last long that is if the guy or the girl in question is still holding on tight to the memories of the ex..

Friday, 4 March 2016

How Does It Feel To Be Single?

To be single means to be free from any form of romantic relationship in whatever form or style it might present itself and by that I mean you can’t say oh I don’t have a boyfriend or a girlfriend yeah but once in a while I still kiss, smooch or even have sex….hell to the NO you are not single. Being single means you’ve either decided to stay completely away from the opposite sex or found yourself where you can’t seem to get someone to date you or you thinking something is wrong with you that no one wants to that you.

Wednesday, 2 March 2016

Have you Moved on?



I was going through the comment on the Have you ever fallen in love post and part of the comment of Duru caught my fancy.. in his words…."To this Young and utterly confused 24 year old yeah.. I think the ghen ghen Thing about Love is.. "When you want to fall into it.. Let go completely and when you want to climb outta it and leave it behind.. let Go completely as well. :) "

Monday, 29 February 2016

How did you manage your breakup?

Like I said in post 3, when we broke and I got home was alone and what have you, the truth is that I didn’t feel any pain to shed a tear or better still cry.. I was really calm about it even tho I was angry and wished I could have inflicted pains on him really bad and all, yet I didn’t cry for losing him.. He was the love of my life no doubt but I had trained my emotions so hard to withstand pain. I had this notion that no matter how much a man will love and cherish you, he will still hurt you and the painful one’s are usually from people who we love.

Saturday, 27 February 2016

What caused your breakup?


What right on earth did that man or woman have to treat you the way they did? How bad did it go?…we all claimed to be in love yet he/she could not muster up the strength to control the tensed situation….when breakup turns messy, it makes people lose faith in love.

Wednesday, 24 February 2016

Let’s remember the beautiful things that happened when we were in love.


I’ve always had like very few boyfriends …or rather lemme say i’ve had guys who ask me for a relationship, instead of saying yes or no, I just play along to see how far we could go and alas in say a week to a month into the relationship, i get tired and bored and just want out….mind you my legs were always closed…Girls you can’t always open your legs for every man you get into a relationship with you…abeg this talk will be a post for another day…..lol.…..

Monday, 22 February 2016

Have You ever Fallen in Love?

Love is a beautiful thing which I wish for every one of us to experience even if it’s just once but at least you need to experience it…. Been in love is that strong that even if you no more with that person, deep down in your heart, you know you will always care for that person.

Saturday, 20 February 2016

What is a relationship?


So we going to start from the basis which is what does the term relationship mean?....A relationship is the way in which two or more people or things are connected, or the state of being connected, or the state of being connected by blood or marriage or the way in which two or more people or groups regard and behave towards each or even a romantic or sexual friendship between two people.

Thursday, 18 February 2016

Welcome to Olis diary.

You are not here by mistake so am gonna start by saying welcome to Olisdiary.com. I will be an anonymous blogger/poster because this will give me room to use some of my private life matters as an example as we commence on this relationship road together.

This blog will dwell on everything that has got to do with relationships and when I say everything, I mean everything…..there will be no restriction of words cos we are dwelling on matter of the heart.

I know the beautiful and at the same time the hellish things we all go through in our relationships be we single or married…but not to worry this blog is here to guide and answer all of your questions and if you would want to reach me privately to share your experience or you just want to have someone you can talk to, I will be here for you..i will be your best friend and your great confidant…your secrets are safe with me.